Henry David Thoreau – Walden
The 6$ that I spend on this gem, are easily in the discussion for best investment of my life. And I believe whole heartedly that this book has the potential to enrich if not change your life. I started to read Walden when I was flying towards Portugal and I finished it while watching the sunset in a small village near guimares. In Walden Thoreau writes about his experiment of living in the woods near Walden Pond, in Concord, Massachusets in solitude for two years. He lives there completely self-reliant, in the shack he build, as simple as possible, and supported by no one else but by himself.
When Tim Ferris packed his stuff to vagabond around the world, he took two books with him. The first one was Vagabonding by Rolf Potts, the second one was Walden by Hendrik DavidThoreau.
Tim Ferris was one of the guys who inspired me to found my own psychology podcast.
The 6$ that I spend on this gem, are easily in the discussion for best investment of my life. And I believe whole heartedly that this book has the potential to enrich if not change your life.
I started to read Walden when I was flying towards Portugal and I finished it while watching the sunset in a small village near guimares.
In Walden Thoreau writes about his experiment of living in the woods near Walden Pond, in Concord, Massachusets in solitude for two years. He lives there completely self-reliant, in the shack he build, as simple as possible, and supported by no one else but by himself.
The timing could have not been better for me to find this gem. At the time of my discovery of Walden, I had the biggest financial trouble of my recent memory, and I was on the summit of brokeback mountain, surrounded by a large storm of horsecrap.
The stoicism that is depicted in Hendrik David Thoreau’s Walden not only gave me a new perspective but made me realize that the things that matter to me most cannot be taken away from me, ever.
As long as I have the people I love, my orange backpack, my blog, and my dream I have everything that I need.
That I am free.
What is the Book Walden About?
In Walden, Thoreau writes about his experiment of living in the woods near Walden Pond, in Concord, Massachusets in solitude for two years. He lives there completely self-reliant, in the shack, he build himself, as simple as possible, and supported by no one else but by himself.
In total, he spent for his cabin just 28 Dollars. In order to sustain himself, Thoreau grows and sells vegetables, mostly beans. His day to day diet consists mainly of rye bread, salt pork, rice, beans, and potatoes.
Thoreau`s Idea was that in the midst of modern society and within day to day ordinary life can one lose his or her true identity.
Thoreau moving to walden is a radical experiment in order to see what remains at the core of the human soul if one eliminates variables such as possession, social connections, career and external validation.
Henry David Thoreau was motivated for this experiment by his Mentor and Role Model Ralph Waldo Emerson, and I would think that they belong to the school of transcendentalism, which assumes that there is a true self to discover.
Thoreau goes into great detail about his observations about the nature that surrounded him in the forest in Walden. The Book Walden is not only a book about self-discovery and stoicism but it is also about mindfulness, minimalism, gratitude and our spiritual connection to nature.
In Walden Thoreau shows his great love for numbers, and he goes into detail how much he spends in order to build his cabin in the woods and how much money he spent on salt from 1845 to 1847. To us, this may seem weird or trivial(2) but to Thoreau it was important. In his opinion modern society with its blind devotion to consumerism, technology and hedonism is enslaving the human soul with its dependencies and is ultimately robbing us of our most precious gift: our freedom.
According to him, we create our own prison.
He spends however not the entire time in his little cabin in the wood on working on his little farm that he build. Thoreau spent only as much time on labor and work as was necessary in order to sustain himself.
He went into the woods to think, to feel and to observe nature.
You can see that he had little to no respect for material things and possessions.
Thoreau was proud and fascinated by how little he spend, and how little he actually needed. He spend less money on building a hose and living there than he had to spend studying in Harvard.
Thoreau was a true free spirit, he even refuses to acknowledge the days of the week or month, he was only guided by the season that changed slowly in front of him.
After two years of living in the forrest, Thoreau left Walden. Thoreau announced that his project at the pond is over on September 6, 1847. He felt that humans live many lives and that his life living at the pond was finished. He then admonishes us to meet our lives, and live fully.
Who is Hendrik David Thoreau?
3 Lessons That I learned From Walden
The Importance of Self-Reliance
A clear theme in the book Walden is the importance of Self-Reliance. A huge influence for Hendrik David Thoreaueu was the writer Ralph Waldo Emerson, and in particular the essay Self-Reliance, is one of the finest pieces of literature ever written in my opinion. One could say that Hendrik David Thoreau’s experiment to live without money in the woods for 2 years was motivated by proving the ideals of Emerson that are depicted in the letter self-reliance of 1841.
“Man is his own star; and the soul that can
Render an honest and a perfect man,
Commands all light, all influence, all fate;
Nothing to him falls early or too late.
Our acts our angels are, or good or ill,
Our fatal shadows that walk by us still.”
Epilogue to Beaumont and Fletcher’s Honest Man’s Fortune
In Walden, Thoreau explains that a person needs financial independence more than the neediness that millions live by in our hedonistic societies that only aim at acquiring more material wealth.
Thoreau goes into great detail on how much money he spends in his experiment, he even mentioned that the amount of money he spent 1845-1847 on salt. To “normal” people this may be trivial, to Thoreau this meant control. Controlling his own finances and not be dependent on banks, jobs and other people is ultimately the ability to control one’s own fortune and life.
Thoreau’s experiment to live in the woods is not only an experiment to liberate himself from the strings of the capitalistic cravings that are mandatory to live in our society, but he also aims at cutting strings with his social life. He very rarely was visited by other people in his time by the woods.
And if he was visited by friends, they were most likely also poets or thinkers.
This was a deep lesson for me. Being Independent and self-reliant means to be in control. I believe psychologically three things among many others, are causing depression.
Perceived lack of control over one’s own life, financial scarcity, and our craving for external validation.
By eliminating the need for those three basic human needs, Thoreau gives us a uniquely different manual of how to deal with anxiety and depression in my opinion.
Our brain is an overreactive Son of a b*tch. Every time one of our bills is overdue, we fear social exclusion and starvation.
Thoreau goes to extreme length to become the boss of his own life, something we all should try to be. And it seems that the psychological benefit of feeling in charge is fundamental when it comes to preserving our sanity.
Walden has taught me that in order to battle my depression and anxiety I need to feel more in control. Limiting our dependencies is a liberation of the soul.
The second benefit of being more self-reliant is to stress less about things that are not in your control.
The identification and separation of matters that we can influence is key. There are many things in life that we can influence and change, and by all means am I an advocate of striving to become better and doing everything we can. But there is a lot of stuff that we can not change. From accidents to illness to losing a loved one.
By focusing on the things we can not change we dig our own graves and invest in our anxiety.
What we always can change however is the fact of how we deal with things that we can not change. Our attitude and emotion towards misfortune is in our control. Always.
Even if you are suffering you are in control of what coping mechanism you choose. Years back I interviewed 2 brothers. Their father died of severe alcoholism. One of them became an addict as well. I asked him why he thought that he was so vulnerable to addiction, and he hinted that he had no other choice because his father lived this way. And that he inherited those bad habits.
The other brother was doing fairly well in life, and I asked him why he was doing so good. He gave me the same answer. He told me he was doing so good because we wanted to be the opposite of his father and learn from his mistakes and not bring the level of pain and suffering into the world.
We all need the feeling of control. If you feel overwhelmed in life, focus on the little things that are in your power.
Often we underestimate the power of the culmination of doing tiny things on a regular basis.
The Value of Stoicism
In Walden Thoreau dedicated an entire chapter to the idea of simplicity. Thoreau depicts the idea that humans in our capitalistic society have a tendency to be dissatisfied with one`s possession.
Something that is true for most of us. We are all in some way in the process of creating the means of getting more.
There are two ways according to Thoreau of dealing with this dissatisfaction. We either acquire more, or we reduce our desires.
Thoreau goes to extreme lengths of reducing his desires, by living alone in the woods.
From building his own shack to having a simplistic diet. To him, the devotion of acquiring luxurious extravagancies is not only unnecessary but a real liability and empidment. It is crazy how these ideas are still relevant 150 years later.
We work our asses of to get a house that is to big for us, with money that we borrowed from the bank, drive a car that we don’t really need, work a job in order to buy stuff that we not only could easily live without but is actually hindering us of becoming happy and fulfilled.
Thoreau goes as far as discussing if humans need shelter at all because he believes our skin is enough of a tent.
This thinking deeply liberated me in times of financial struggle. That my worst case scenario is actually not that bad.
Stoics would go as far as to practice misfortune on a regular basis. By training our brain that the condition that we fear most is actually not that bad we liberate ourself from fear and anxiety.
Gary V, for example, visualizes his worst case scenario(the death of his loved ones) every morning. I know this is crazy. But he believes that this is the source of his level of gratitude.
Stoics don’t aim at devoting their life to acquiring more, but to become the best person they can become.
This is of extreme importance when it comes to how we see ourselves, and how we judge ourself and others.
What do you appreciate in yourself and in others? Who do you respect and why?
Do you respect people who are kicking ass in their career? Do you look up to people who are financially successful?
Or do you respect people who are doing good? Who is adding value? Who puts a smile daily on other peoples faces?
We live in the society where we only value performance, we worship people in power, and we do not pay attention to kindness, love, and happiness.
So I urge you to go into introspection. What do you value yourself for?
Often people have a value paradigm that ignores beautiful qualities.
If you only value people in power, people who are “successful” and you are not this person yet you are digging your own grave and create self hate and self doubt.
Do not forget to praise yourself for the things that really matter. Are you a good listener? Can you make other people smile? Are you a devoted person? Can you be happy for others? Are you patient with your parents? Are you there for your friends when they truly need you?
In my interviews with depressed people, they often speak about how much better the world would be without them, that they can not do anything, and that they have no skills.
By scaling down and praising yourself for stoic values, you not only gain happiness, but you gain clarity and truth. Because you are a beautiful person, you may have just not yet realized it because you use the wrong template to evaluate yourself correctly.
Everything is Ephermal
So if possession, achievement, social validation don’t matter, what does?
This very moment does. Now matters.
In my last article, take the road less traveled by, I talked about how overrated feelings are.
And that more often than not, we over-evaluate the importance of feelings. A the end of our emotions very often is nothing.
I had this insight while watching the endless panoramic view in Guimares, realizing that if everything is ephermal, there is no need to stress about the future or the past.
Depression, is often an obsession with the past. Anxiety on the other side is the fear of worrying about everything sh*tty that might happen to us in the future.
This leaves no place for the importance of the now.
A great mentor here is Marcus Aurelius. One of my favorite stoic thinkers.
Run down the list of those who felt intense anger at something: the most famous, the most unfortunate, the most hated, the most whatever: Where is all that now? Smoke, dust, legend…or not even a legend. Think of all the examples. And how trivial the things we want so passionately are.
While I read Walden in Portugal I felt liberated. After receiving some major bad news, I was super anxious and felt like dog sh*t.
It made me think. How many times in my life did my bitchy emotions tell me that the world was going to end, that I will not make it, that everybody will hate me, that I have no future?
How often did the world actually end?
Yup, not one time.
We fail exams and we think we just lost our one and only shot at success. We fight through a breakup and we believe no one ever will love us again. We see a dream not work out and we feel like we just lost our one and only shot at happiness.
Yet still, lifes goes on. Whether we like it or not.
The seasons in Walden, that Thoreau describes so playfully showed me that life is going to go on.
And as I realized in Portugal, we matter a lot less then we are willing to admit.
This is a good thing. Nihilism can be liberating. If nothing matters and everything is trivial, why not do what the f*ck makes you happy and stress less about things.
Whether you die, or the president of the united states, the same thing is coming for both of you. So why stress out so much.
Take it easy, live life fully and be open for the endless beauty that this world has to offer.
Thoreau believed that a human lives many lifes.
As he left the forest that he lived in for two years, we felt that the life he had to live near the pond of this forest was over.
The same goes for you and for me. What life are you living right now that is coming to an end?
What life do you choose to live next?
Who recommended it?
What did I not Like?
His writing style is contrary to his simplistic philosophy. If you are not a native English speaker, this gem is going to be really hard for you to understand.
I had my fair share of trouble with understanding Thoreau`s Walden.
His sentences are very long, and complicated in times. Besides that, I have nothing to argue about.
Call to Action
- What is your biggest fear? And Why?
- What is your worst case Scenario for life? And Why?
- What would your life look like if you would not devote yourself to seeking external validation and materialistic possessions?
- How much money do you spend on food in a month?
- What things do you buy that are not necessary for you to survive or be happy?
- Write down 5 shitty scenarios you overcame in your life
- Throw away 10 things you possess